Marc Barnes, the illustrious Bad Catholic, wrote a piece on Being and Delight. It's awesome; check it out HERE.
I particularly enjoy the bit about
"Delight is joy in being. Delight is joy that springs from the fact that another is... If we want sex, and we use a woman to achieve that end, we do not delight in her. We are not overjoyed by the fact she is, or else the hook-up culture would end in marriage. For a woman always is, and if her very being is our joy, then we will always wish to be in her presence."